10 Common Blow Job Problems and How To Fix Them

No two penis owners like exactly the same things, and the best way of finding out what feels good to the lucky person you’re going down on is to ask them. That said, certain fellatio frustrations arise more often than others — here are ten common ones and what to do about them.

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1. You can’t get the entire penis in your mouth.

First of all, know that you don’t have to. “A lot of women think they’re supposed to deep-throat like porn stars,” sex therapist Vanessa Marin tells Cosmopolitan.com — but porn stars are professionals for a reason. “You can give an excellent blow job without needing to obliterate your gag reflex. The trick is to use your hands: Use your mouth and tongue to focus on the head, and provide wetness. Use your hand on the shaft, to create pressure.” Zoë Ligon, sex educator and founder of sex toy store Spectrum Boutique, echoes this advice: “By using one or two hands, plus a bit of lube, you can essentially create an extension of your mouth,” she says. Then, “you can allow your partner to thrust intensely — almost as though they’re fucking your mouth — while being able to control how deep they’re actually going.”

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