{"id":115122,"date":"2023-01-21T10:25:40","date_gmt":"2023-01-21T10:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/?p=115122"},"modified":"2023-01-21T10:25:40","modified_gmt":"2023-01-21T10:25:40","slug":"why-i-chose-not-to-have-a-child-with-my-ex-husband-toke-makinwa-opens-up-on-her-childlessness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/2023\/01\/21\/why-i-chose-not-to-have-a-child-with-my-ex-husband-toke-makinwa-opens-up-on-her-childlessness\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I chose not to have a child with my ex-husband \u2013 Toke Makinwa opens up on her childlessness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\">Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa has recounted why she chose not to have a child with her ex-husband, Maje Ayida.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/2022\/08\/20\/i-used-to-judge-my-unmarried-aunties-at-30-i-have-become-them-at-37-toke-makinwa\/\">The 38-year-old spoke about how recently, there has been more pressure<\/a> than there&#8217;s ever been from people, for her to have a child. Toke also said her friends wished she had a child during her previous marriage so that that \u2018achievement\u2019 would have at least been ticked off her \u2018must have\u2019 list. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">During the latest episode of her show, <em>Toke Moments<\/em>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/2022\/11\/17\/no-cap-i-was-a-hottie-toke-makinwa-tells-fans-making-fun-of-her-epic-throwback-photo\/\">Toke Makinwa<\/a> opened up about why she didn&#8217;t have children with her ex-husband and why it was all so complex at that time. She said:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201c<\/span><span class=\"s2\">I feel like I&#8217;m stuck in a phase where society is putting so much pressure on me right now. I don&#8217;t regret the fact that I haven&#8217;t had any kids, I don&#8217;t. I honestly don&#8217;t. I feel like I was in my building years, and if I had had a baby, I&#8217;m not saying I wouldn&#8217;t have been able to do it, but I also feel like I needed to put everything into building. And now, I can welcome that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\"> So when people, cuz I have a lot of friends who are like &#8220;oh I wish you had just done that in your marriage, cuz if you had just done that, it would have been something you would have just checked off the list. I&#8217;ve done it and moved on&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">And sometimes, I find myself thinking &#8220;Ah, maybe should I have&#8221; but then when I really think about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">For me the biggest thing in that situation was I just, I don&#8217;t think I wanted to have like my child having siblings in different [places]. It was too complex. Like if it was just straight forward, then I would have been like sure, no worry, we can co-parent. But then there are other children and at some point you can&#8217;t be selfish about not letting your kids not meet their other siblings. It&#8217;s just a whole complex situation. So I know what I want.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/2022\/12\/02\/watching-cctv-of-how-i-was-robbed-devastating-toke-makinwa-opens-up-on-traumatic-london-robbery-incident\/\">Toke Makinwa also revisited the loss<\/a> of both her parents, who died in a gas explosion when she was 8 years old. She that it could be part of the reason she chose not to have a child when she still had a lot of baggage from her past. In her words:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">\u201c\u2026 And deep down, someone might think it&#8217;s so selfish, but I think that maybe because I suffered loss at a young age, I know what that did to me. I had fantastic parents who raised me, but there is also a void I have carried around all my life, from the loss that I experienced at 8.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">Growing up in an African household, you don&#8217;t get to talk about it so much because it&#8217;s such a tragedy. So it took going to therapy to begin to unpack that there are certain things that I was even carrying from that situation even into my marriage, that I had to unpack. So I&#8217;m thankful that I didn&#8217;t have a child because I can imagine the emotional abuse the child might have endured if I was also thinking we don&#8217;t talk about things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">Perhaps, I might have sent that out into the child. 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