{"id":185205,"date":"2024-08-30T18:27:52","date_gmt":"2024-08-30T18:27:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/?p=185205"},"modified":"2024-08-30T18:27:52","modified_gmt":"2024-08-30T18:27:52","slug":"bbnaija-s9-ben-is-competing-with-me-for-anitas-attention-topher-laments","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/2024\/08\/30\/bbnaija-s9-ben-is-competing-with-me-for-anitas-attention-topher-laments\/","title":{"rendered":"BBNaija S9: Ben is competing with me for Anita\u2019s attention \u2013 Topher laments"},"content":{"rendered":"<ul>\n<li><strong>During a chat with Nelly, Topher lamented that Ben was competing with him for Anita\u2019s attention.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Topher also lamented about the issue to big brother during his diary session.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Big Brother Naija housemate Topher has shared his concerns about the dynamics between his girlfriend Anita, her best friend Ben, and himself.<\/p>\n<p>In a conversation with Nelly, Topher expressed feeling overshadowed by Ben&#8217;s constant presence and involvement in Anita&#8217;s life.<\/p>\n<p>Topher described feeling like he&#8217;s in a competition with Ben for Anita&#8217;s attention, citing instances where Ben would offer comfort or comments before he could.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_185206\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-185206\" style=\"width: 648px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-185206\" src=\"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2024\/08\/Screenshot_20240830-190403.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"648\" height=\"584\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2024\/08\/Screenshot_20240830-190403.jpg 648w, https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2024\/08\/Screenshot_20240830-190403-300x270.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 648px) 100vw, 648px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-185206\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Topher<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>He also shared his frustrations during his diary session, questioning Ben&#8217;s motives and wondering if he has romantic feelings for Anita.<\/p>\n<p>Topher acknowledged that having a male best friend can be beneficial, but he struggles with feeling like Ben is inserting himself into his relationship with Anita.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cI haven\u2019t been in this situation of girl and male best friend, if I even want to comfort Anita, before I get there, Ben is there, she did her nails, before I talk, Ben don talk say e fine,\u201d <\/em><\/strong>he said.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cBeing her male bestie is cool, but you trying to come in between what I have with Anita is what I don\u2019t understand, I know you have your own person, is it that you like Anita and you don\u2019t want any other guy to be with her?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The two lovebirds<a href=\"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/2024\/08\/15\/bbnaija-lovebirds-topher-anita-share-kiss-to-mark-ex-beauty-queens-birthday\/\"> Topher and Anita had earlier shared kiss to mark her birthday<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The couple, who have been showing affection towards each other, shared a romantic kiss to cap off the day.<\/p>\n<p>Topher had been showering Anita with affectionate gestures throughout the day, which culminated in a midnight kiss.<\/p>\n<p>Earlier, Topher had expressed his feelings towards Anita, describing her as his \u201csafe space\u201d and revealing that he hadn\u2019t planned on falling in love in the house until he met her.<\/p>\n<p>The other housemates also joined in to celebrate Anita\u2019s birthday, with Biggie sending a special cake to mark the occasion<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>During a chat with Nelly, Topher lamented that Ben was competing with him for Anita\u2019s attention. 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