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Adesua said she busted into laughter because she was confused and didn\u2019t know how to react when she was told the news. But when she got home, she started wailing and filled with sadness.<\/p>\n
In her words;<\/p>\n
\u201cWe got pregnant with twins and we had gone for the scans and we had seen the heartbeats. At this point, very few people know when this happened. Every report you have heard is a lie because nobody knew when it happened. We saw the heartbeat and everything was okay.<\/p>\n
\u201cDuring a routine checkup, we went back to the hospital to have a scan, and I just saw the doctor\u2019s face \u2015 you know when something is wrong; sometimes you can tell. The doctor was scanning, and I asked, \u2018what is wrong\u2019 but she said nothing.<\/p>\n \u201cI looked at the nurse\u2019s face and she looked a bit funny too. I asked what was wrong, and she said, \u2018Adesua, I am looking for the heartbeat.\u2019 I asked, \u2018for two of them?\u2019 And she said yes. I am actually not going to lie, I started laughing because it did not make any sense to me. I was like, \u2018what do you mean you can\u2019t find the heartbeat of both?\u2019 She said \u2018Yes\u2019. Banky<\/a> was not home at the time, so I went home and I remember being in our living room. When I was at the hospital I was laughing; I was like \u2018God knows\u2019.<\/p>\n Adesua added, \u201cWhen I got home, I literally collapsed on the floor and I wailed. Wailing is not the same thing as crying. Wailing is a deep groaning in your chest. It is like a nut that you cannot get rid of. I am sharing this because so many women go through this but nobody talks about it because it is almost like a thing of shame for whatever reason and I don\u2019t know why, because you don\u2019t control your body; you don\u2019t create yourself.<\/p>\n \u201cI want to give a shout out to every single woman that has gone through IVF. I know what you have gone through. I have veins in my hand that no longer work; they are so traumatized that you cannot get blood out of them. IVF is a very tasking thing \u2015 emotionally and physically on your body, mentally it is very tough.<\/p>\n \u201cIt was very tough; it was very hard. I was going through it while going through the fact that every day I will hear one rumour or the other. Some said I was barren, some said my husband was impotent or I had done something to my womb. It was very hard, but I am saying this because I promised God that I would and there is nothing anybody can do to make me shut up about the goodness of God.<\/p>\n \u201cIt is funny how we can accept that the other organs might need help; you can get a heart transplant, you can get help with your kidneys, but when it comes to the reproductive organs, it is like a dirty topic nobody wants to talk about. I think it is really important that we talk about it.<\/p>\n Adesua made all these known during a chat at The Waterbrook Studio while sharing the testimony of God\u2019s goodness.<\/p>\n![\"\u2018Doctor](\"https:\/\/www.withinnigeria.com\/entertainment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/04\/adeyinka_oluwamayowa\/2021\/04\/05\/Adesua-Etomi-and-Banky-W2.jpg\")
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