Bolatito Ladoja, wife of popular singer, Bez has revealed how she had two abortions as she reflect on her past life.<\/p>\n
Taking to the micro blogging platform, Twitter, on Easter Sunday, Tito revealed that she was scared and took the only option that was available to her at that time. She added that she was not proud of the choice she made and that she has lived in shame and guilt.<\/p>\n
She also said that God has shown her mercy and compassion despite all her wrongdoings. Using the Easter celebration as an example, she affirmed that Jesus resurrection has subdued death and set her from the bondage and guilt.<\/p>\n
Read her Twitter thread below.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve had 2 abortions. I was scared and wasn\u2019t ready. I took the only options I thought were available to me at the time. And even in this age of pro choice, I am not personally proud of the choices I made. And I lived in shame and guilt for years.<\/p>\n
It almost crippled me when I found myself fighting for the life of my daughter<\/a>. I couldn\u2019t stop thinking: \u201cI deserve this punishment. Now I\u2019m ready, and God is finally ready to get me back\u201d. But then I didn\u2019t understand the salvation and righteousness that I have in Christ.<\/p>\n That in his death and resurrection Jesus Christ, destroyed my shame and gave me a new name. A new beginning. A new identity. Even in the midst of my \u2018sin\u2019 and deepest shame, God couldn\u2019t have punished me because that is what Christ took on when he chose that sacrifice.<\/p>\n In the stripes and death he took all my sin and in his resurrection he set me FREE. What GRACE! So undeserved. I mean, my husband and 3 babies are proof of God\u2019s Grace! I thought: \u201cI have to earn it\u201d, this love, this mercy, this grace.<\/p>\n I thought: I must WORK for this righteousness. I must show that I deserve it. But nothing I did ever felt enough. Until one day I got it: \u201crighteousness (right standing) is the gift of choosing Christ. It is nothing you can ever work for. With this comes freedom to be and to do!<\/p>\n You begin to know, that your works are just you walking in agreement with what God has already done. I am here doing all that I do because nothing holds me back. No guilt, no condemnation, no shame! Christ took it all.<\/p>\n Today is EASTER SUNDAY! Christ rose today. He destroyed the power of death! He set us FREE! Stop punishing yourself, stop thinking it is by your works, stop judging others because quite frankly none of us deserve anything, Christ is the one who paid the price making us WORTHY & FREE!<\/p>\n If you are still burdened by the spirit of condemnation, open yourself to the gift of life from Christ. Accept his salvation today. Invite him into your heart. Release it all to him. He loves you so much, he died for you. HAPPY EASTER!\u201d<\/p>\n I\u2019ve had 2 abortions. I was scared and wasn\u2019t ready. — Tito Idakula (@titoidakula) April 4, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n
I took the only options I thought were available to me at the time.
And even in this age of pro choice, I am not personally proud of the choices I made. And I lived in shame and guilt for years.<\/p>\n