Anal sex inspires lots of panic feeling and myths. But we are not here to judge.
So if you’re thinking of giving it a try, here are things to consider.
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1. Go slow
While the vagina is flexible and welcoming, the anus and rectum have thinner skin and don’t share that same flexibility. If you’re interested in trying anal play, a good way to get adapted and avoid pain is by first inserting a finger or using a butt plug. So when you feel comfortable enough to move on to your partner’s penis, start off slowly.
2. Lubrication
Because water-based lubes tend to break down faster and there’s no natural moisture in the rectum, it’s essential to use a thicker, silicone-based lube so tearing doesn’t happen. Even tiny tears in the anal area can let bacteria and viruses into your system.
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3. Bowels could be affected
In general, anal sex could put added stress on the anal sphincter muscle, and that could prevent you from having a bowel movement on your own terms or a normal consistency to your bowel movements. So to reduce the likelihood of this happening, go slow, hit the bathroom first, and ask your partner not to go too deep.