A heartbroken lady has narrated the shock she got after trying to surprise her boyfriend on his birthday by visiting his house unannounced.
Read the post shared by relationship expert, Cynthia Valerian Raphaels:
Good afternoon ma. How is work and family? I need advise ma. Please hide my id .Something happened in my relationship last month like Saturday of last month. This is a man that knows my family and we are planning to marry by Easter next year. My boyfriends birthday was last Saturday of August. I decided to surprise him, packed my bags to go visit him to sleep over. I didn’t tell him I was coming.
I left on Friday When I got to the house because I have my own keys, I got there around 2:30pm, I even stopped by the market to buy soup and stew items, got to the house, opened the entrance with my keys and first went to the kitchen to drop the food stuffs I bought . Meanwhile I have been discussing with him about his birthday will be, so he told me on that day, he will come and take me out.
That was our agreement . So I didn’t tell him I was planning something else. When I dropped the stuff at the kitchen, I took my bags to the room, met a lady lying down, sleeping with just bra and short in his bedroom. The sound of my shoes woke her up and she asked me who am I, how did I get in?
I introduced myself and she laughed and told me that I should stop joking. She quickly went to where she was charging her phone to call him. That a girl came and was telling her they are dating. The phone was on speak out. He told her that the girl must be mad,that he has no other woman except her. That he is busy at work and will call her later. He dropped the call and I had to dial his number, he picked and I asked him what he just said some seconds ago, he started asking if I am the one, that why didn’t I call him. I cut off.
I left with my bag, I didn’t go with the food stuff again. He kept calling but I blocked off his lines and blocked him on WhatsApp and on Facebook. He started calling with another number, but got tired to call and stopped. Three years of my relationship him. Even that evening, he drove down to my house but I left to my friends place to cool off.
On Sunday he came again to my friends house but she asked him out . He has visited my work place like three times but I don’t want to see him. He said the girl is his ex that doesn’t want him to be. That she came to his house so late at night on Thursday and he allowed her to stay, that she came from east. He even said the girl left his house that day.
I don’t know what to believe anymore. I love this guy ma’am, I really love him, he loves me but I am confused. He has called my mother to apologize to her, my mum has called me to forgive him, even his sisters are calling me. I am 32 years, he is 35 years.