The atmosphere at the Monarch Event Centre in Lekki, Lagos State on June 10 2026 carried a weight that words struggled to contain, as loved ones, colleagues, and admirers gathered to honour the life of Alexx Ekubo in a service of songs that blended grief, gratitude, memory, and quiet acceptance. The hall was filled with familiar faces from the film industry, the music scene, the church, and public service, yet the presence of loss hung over every seat, every stage moment, and every voice that rose to speak.
Alexx Ekubo, who passed away on May 11 2026 at a Lagos hospital after a long battle with advanced kidney cancer, was remembered not just as an actor, but as a man whose influence stretched far beyond the screen and into personal bonds that many described as irreplaceable. His final journey toward burial in Ujari Village, Abia State scheduled for June 18 2026 added a solemn frame to a night already defined by emotional reflection and deep personal testimony.
Across the event, stories surfaced that painted a portrait of a man who lived with intention, warmth, and a strong sense of loyalty to those around him. The service became more than a ceremonial gathering as it turned into a space where grief was spoken aloud, where laughter briefly broke through tears, and where memories carried more weight than the silence between them.
From colleagues who shared sets with him, to family members who grew up alongside him, every tribute revealed layers of a personality that many said could not be fully captured in headlines or film roles alone. The evening moved in waves of remembrance, each speech opening a different window into his life, his relationships, and the impact he left behind.
Service Of Songs Gathering Lagos State
The service of songs held on June 10 2026 at the Monarch Event Centre in Lekki brought together an unusually wide circle of attendees whose connection to Alexx Ekubo spanned entertainment, faith, governance, and personal friendship. Nollywood actors, gospel ministers, musicians, and dignitaries filled the venue, creating a gathering that reflected how deeply his life had intersected with different spheres of public and private influence. Former Nigerian Minister of Education Oby Ezekwesili was among the notable dignitaries present, sitting alongside industry colleagues who had shared both professional and personal moments with the late actor.
The environment was structured yet emotionally charged, with gospel ministrations woven into tributes and musical performances that echoed themes of hope, surrender, and reflection. The presence of pastors Ituah Ighodalo and Jerry Eze brought a spiritual dimension to the gathering, as they ministered alongside gospel artistes Peterson Okopi, Ebuka Songs, Moses Bliss, Mercy Chinwo, and the Laud Urban Choir. Each performance carried a sense of collective mourning, with lyrics that seemed to mirror the emotions of those seated in quiet reflection. The hall, though filled with people, often fell into a stillness that made every word spoken feel personal and direct.
Dignitaries Gospel Voices Presence
Beyond the spiritual ministers, the attendance of well known figures from entertainment and public life underscored the reach of Alexx Ekubo’s influence. The presence of Funke Akindele, Kate Henshaw, Omoni Oboli, Nancy Isime, Ini Edo, Ruth Kadiri, Ike Ogbonna, Stan Nze, Kunle Remi, Mike Godson, AY, Frank Edoho, Cubana Chief Priest, Kcee, EMoney, Chike, Bambam, Yomi Casual, and Dayo Amusan reflected a broad network of relationships that extended across generations of Nollywood and Nigerian pop culture.
Each person arrived with their own memory of Alexx Ekubo, and as the evening unfolded, those memories began to surface in speeches, conversations, and emotional pauses. The event did not feel like a distant ceremony but rather a shared experience of loss among people who had worked, laughed, disagreed, and grown alongside him. Gospel voices filled the air between tributes, creating a rhythm that moved between sorrow and spiritual reflection, reinforcing the sense that the evening was as much about healing as it was about remembrance.
IK Ogbonna Tribute Reflection
IK Ogbonna’s tribute stood out for its emotional depth and personal honesty as he spoke about a friendship that went beyond industry acquaintance into brotherhood. His words reflected shared conversations, advice exchanged, and moments that defined their bond over the years.
IK Ogbonna’s words:
“Even in our last conversation, you still told me the same thing. “Always remember, I’m here for you, even if no one else is.” You also kept telling me, Ogbo, get closer to God. Sometimes I would try to explain to Alex how close I am to God. I would tell him that God and I have a different kind of relationship. But coming the next Eke market day, same advice. And that was Alex always looking out for those he loved. We would, we had fights, but we had even more good times. You would call me and say, Ogbo, go and get your visas. Anything can come up. But me, Mr. Last Minute, I would wait till the call comes and we start looking for a visa. I still wouldn’t listen. I am glad I had you, not just as a friend, but as a brother. You knew I was that guy that would ride with you to the canteen. And even in dèath, my bro, I’m still riding for you. Your concerns have always been mine and would forever remain mine.
“So all my friends now, to the ones I’ll make in the future, I appreciate you all, but there will never be another Alex. The world, sometimes were unfairly a good guy. He was never really a bad guy after all. I only wish you were alive to witness the love people are showing you right now. I stood by you through some very difficult moments and I saw your strength first hand. You are indeed a soldier, a wise man, a light in every room you entered, and a man full of life. One of those people that you can never imagine would dìe because he carried life wherever he went, always motivating people, always encouraging others, always believing that tomorrow would be better than today. Uh, Eku, I’ve tried being strong. I’ve tried distracting myself. I… but somehow it keeps boiling down to the same breakdowns. I never knew I could ever connect with a human being as a brother without blood, but Alex Ekubo was more than a brother to me. The hardest part is that life refused to stop even after you died. People still call, meetings are still happening, the sun still comes up every morning as if nothing has happened, but everything changed. Every day, there is something on Instagram I want to share with you. Every day I reach for my phone before remembering that that call is not gonna connect.
“I keep thinking there will be one more conversation, one more Ogbo you dey mädd, one more lecture, one more argument, one more I got you bro, no worry, but there won’t be. And that is the part that breaks me. Would I ever truly get over this loss? I honestly don’t know, but maybe this is also a reminder of one of life’s hardest truths. If we live long enough, we will all have to bùry people that we love. We will all have to face the pain of losing the people we genuinely believe would have made it to the end. The sad reality of life is that either our loved ones would burý us, or we would buřy them.”
Father Tribute Family Memory
The tribute from Alexx Ekubo’s father, read by his cousin, introduced a deeply personal layer of grief that reflected both pride and heartbreak. The words carried the weight of a parent confronting an unimaginable reality while still holding on to memories of a son described as kind, respectful, and full of light.
His Father’s statement:
“My dear son, Alex Ikenna, my beloved Ike bobo, Ikukwuomam. The day I received the news of passing was the darkest day of my life. As a father, I never imagined that I would live to write a tribute to my own son. This is a pain that cuts deep, that cuts deep into the heart, a wound that words cannot heal. Ikenna, you were a precious gift from God. You brought joy, honor, and happiness to our family. Your smile lit up every room, your laughter brought comfort and joy, and your kind heart drew many people close to you. You were a son any father would be proud of, respectful, loving, cheerful, and compassionate. You carried yourself with dignity and treated everyone with kindness. Many knew you, many loved you, and many will continue to remember you. My dear son, Ikukuomam, your name speaks of strength, movement, and presence. Like the wind, you touched many lives. Though we could not hold on to you forever, the impact of your life remains with us. Who am I to question God? The Almighty gives and the Almighty takes away. Yet, as a father, my heart is heavy. I wish for more years with you. I wish to hear your voice again, to see your smile again, and to watch you continue life’s journey, especially alongside your beloved wife, Anwili. Today, I remember not only your many achievements, but also your character.
“And I remember your generosity, especially towards me, your father, your warmth, and the love you freely shared with family and friends. These memories are treasured. Nwamam, Nwanyi, Nwanyi, God, you were a good son who feared and served God faithfully, a son whose life brought great honor and pride to his family. Your departure has left a void that can never be filled. As we commit your body to mother earth, we pray that your soul finds eternal rest in the bosom of Almighty God. May perpetual light shine upon you. You loved, you left footprints on our hearts that time can never erase. Until we meet again. Mazi.”
Sister Tribute Blink Memory
Alexx Ekubo’s sister delivered a tribute that blended childhood memory with the raw finality of loss, creating a moment that resonated deeply with those present. Her recollection of their youthful bond revealed a playful side of the actor that many in the industry also recognized.
Her words:
“He bowed out the same way he lived, on his own terms, with dignity, with grace, like a boss. But beyond all his strength, all the pain, there was also the Ikenna we laughed with. I remember when we were much younger in university, he’d be dressing up for school, and I’ll just sit down there looking at him. Alex would catch me staring and say, “blink, have you not seen a fine boy before? Blink, let me know you are still alive.”
“That was him, charming without effort, funny without trying, confident in a way that made everyone around him smile. And then came the hardest moment of all, the day he passed. I looked at Ikenna and whispered, “Alex, blink.” No response. I whispered again, “blink.” But by this time, he didn’t. Ikenna had gone to be with his maker. Some people leave memories. Alex left impact.”
Sister Inlaw Tribute Love Story
The tribute from Alexx Ekubo’s sister in law highlighted the emotional depth of his relationship with his wife Anwili and the intentional way he approached love and family. It painted a picture of a man who valued connection beyond surface level affection and who was deeply respected within his extended family circle.
Her words:
“Anwili, my sister, it was difficult for us. We were very particular about who she ends up with because she’s a special breed. But when Ikenna came forth, we knew no one else deserved her but Ikenna. We knew she was safe with him because he was an intentional lover. If you thought you’ve ever known or experienced love, you needed to experience Ikenna and Anwili. He was very intentional. My mother was safe with him because we saw how he loved his family. Because we’re very intentional in our own family too. So it wasn’t a thing of bother to let our jewel go to Ikenna because we saw how particular he was about family. Family not just being by blood. If Ikenna loved you, you’ve become family.
“The purest of them. Ikenna came and his mission fulfilled. Yes, might be short, but who are we to say it were short? One thing we’re certain of, one thing I know is that Ikenna returned empty. He emptied of himself. He didn’t return back to his maker with anything. He emptied himself of every virtue he came into this life with. He was a crazy lover of Jesus. A radical lover of God. That’s our consolation. That he came, he saw, he conquered and returned fulfilled.”
Industry Voices Final Reflections
Industry voices added another layer of reflection as colleagues summarized years of interaction into brief but emotional tributes.
Stan Nze described him as a good man who lived for God and a giver, a statement that echoed across many conversations at the event.
Nancy Isime shared how she received the news while driving and reflected on the impact Alexx Ekubo made within his 40 years of life, emphasizing that impact is not always measured by lifespan but by presence and influence. Her words captured the sentiment that ran through the hall, that his legacy extended beyond time into the lives he touched.
Her words;
“I was driving when I heard the news of Alexx Ekubo’s d£@th.
“Alexx was my friend, people knew that, we had so much fun videos. He was 40 years and he made so much impact. A lot of people live their life to a 100 years and don’t make as much impact as he did.
“So Alexx lived his way and he also went out his way. So that is commendable and I will forever love him.”
Final Farewell: Abia Burial
As the service of songs drew to a close, attention turned toward the final journey scheduled for June 18 2026 in Ujari Village, Abia State, where Alexx Ekubo will be laid to rest. The gathering in Lagos had already set the emotional tone for that farewell, blending grief with gratitude and remembrance with acceptance.
What remained was not just mourning, but the collective acknowledgment of a life that many said was lived with purpose, intention, and love that reached far beyond the screen.
