The gold digger can be defined as a woman whose main reason for hooking up is so that she can gain material benefits from the latest bank account she’s dating.
Here are to 10 signs that your girlfriend is much more interested in spending quality time with your wallet than with you.
1. She wants expensive gifts
When you give her something sentimental that doesn’t cost much but reminds you of a special time together, or you write a heartfelt poem, she might give you a blank look of turn her nose up at the gift. She would have just preferred it if you gave her an expensive gift. Gold diggers are eager for gifts that are caked with money.
2. Her friends are gold diggers
As the saying goes, show me your friends and I will show you your character. You tell a lot about someone from the company they keep. If your girlfriend spends time with her friends who seem to show signs of being gold diggers, or you’ve heard gossips about their behavior, chances are, she could be well influenced by their tendencies.
3. She’s curious about your financial status.
Your girlfriend has been interested in hearing about your career and financial status from day one. Though you might mistaken her curiosity for interest in your life, she’s probably trying to pay her way through out the relationship.
4. She never pays
When you go out on a date and the bill is passed, she never want to pay. She’s always looking at you to pay for everything. She’s not ready to spend her money on you.
5. She dresses extra lavish.
She’s always dressed in the finest and expensive clothing. Always looking gorgeous. She loves to see care of herself but with other people’s money if course. This is to attract richer dudes.
6. She’s status-obsessed.
She craves for high status, by her dressing and looks. She thinks she can gain it. Snubbing people she perceives as having low class or status is a regular for her. She’s more likely to be impressed if men told her they own properties.
7. She climbs boyfriends.
Instead of climbing the corporate ladder, she uses her boyfriends as a stepping stone. Looking back at her relationship history, you’re likely to find that each guy she has dated has been richer than the last. She’ll get to a more richer dude through you.
8. She’s out of your league.
You feel someway when you consider that your bae looks far better than you. Bear in mind that this could be a bad sign. No offence but if she’s mikes better looking than you’re, you’ve to wonder what she’s hoping to gain from the relationship. If you have a fat wallet. It could be a sign she’s hoping to increase her wealth by association.
9. She earns a very modest income, yet everything she owns is very expensive.
This is less obvious than it sounds. A good gold digger knows how to network, and she knows she needs some kind of job, lest she look like what she is. She’ll probably work part-time somewhere, and supplement her income with your donations. All those shoes, clothes, etc – you better believe she didn’t pay for them herself.
10.The only time you have sex is when you buy her something
This is the Gold Diggers way of repaying you. It’s also her way of classically conditioning you: You have to pay before you can play. Depending on your financial status, this may be something as small as dinner in a moderately priced restaurant, or it may mean jewelry is required before she’ll drop her knickers. Either way, she’s your own personal call-girl, whether you realize it or not.