“If you fight your husband everyday, lots of women are waiting for him outside” Pastor Deborah tells women

• She told Nigerian women to quit engaging in constant arguments with their husbands
• She emphasized the importance of giving men peace and happiness, even in the face of disagreements 
• She stated that lack of peace at home could drive a man into the hands of another woman

Pastor Deborah Omale recently found herself in the middle of a national debate over her frank counsel to women in Nigeria.

In a comment that has garnered a lot of attention, Pastor Deborah advised women to avoid having regular arguments with their spouses, warning that doing so would tempt men to sleep with other women.

Even in the midst of arguments or complaints, she highlighted the value of offering husbands tranquility and contentment at home.

In Pastor Deborah’s speech, she issues a caution: constant fighting and strife may drive spouses from their homes and into the arms of other waiting women.

Many Nigerians are divided on the subject in the wake of this blunt advise.

Her statements have sparked a heated controversy, and responses are flooding in from all social media platforms.

truecrimedaniel: “Even if u don’t fight him every day, there are still plenty waiting for him outside… Who will cheat will cheat.. it has almost nothing to do with the other person.”

is_glams: “It is the kind of environment he creates that he will get. He cannot create an environment like ikorodu and be expecting to see Maldives.”

dear_hopeee: “So because they are plenty waiting for him outside, if he does something that hurts us constantly, we shouldn’t complain? These are the gatekeepers of Patriarchy. Tor”

babydoll_sugarcrunch: “There are loads of men waiting for women outside too… Everything is not about a foolish man… Men need to learn how to behave at home and differentiate home from outside… Your woman would not fight you if you make her happy… Let the feelings be mutual… Men need pampering, and at times, they need that fight for a reset to happen; they’re easily manipulated… That’s why you see them leaving their homes and kids to be with a strange woman… Shout if need be, shout, please… make nobody pressure you.”

laviva bae: “You people should stop this, please, it’s becoming annoying. What about the things men should do to make wives happy? Every time it’s about what a woman should do and what a woman shouldn’t do. Are we here just to live life and please a man?”