When news broke on 27 December 2025 that Nollywood actress, filmmaker and producer Allwell Ademola had died, the industry froze. Tributes poured in almost immediately. Photos, videos, captions and throwback clips flooded social media. But as the days passed and burial plans began, it became clear that her death would not only be marked by tears. It would also reopen old wounds, spark public confrontations, and expose tensions many did not know existed.
By the time Allwell Ademola was finally laid to rest on 9 January 2026, her burial had become more than a farewell. It had turned into a moment where grief, anger, guilt and reconciliation all played out in public view.
The First Shock & First Tension
In the days following her death, Nollywood colleagues shared glowing tributes, describing Allwell as kind, supportive and selfless. But while the industry mourned, a different tone was coming from her family.
On 30 December 2025, Allwell’s brother took to social media with an emotional post that quickly went viral. In it, he questioned the sincerity of many of the tributes being posted by actors and actresses. He accused some of them of abandoning his sister while she was alive, especially during the periods when she was producing her own films and struggling for support. He even mentioned some big names to drive home his point. In his words:
“You guys should stop posting my sister, you don’t know her age. She’s not 43, stop posting her, you guys never honor her when alive.
“Everybody dey post Allwell rest in peace, how many of you support my sister when she was alive? Na only in her movie I dey see her.
All of una A-list artistes wey call una self her friends, Iyabo Ojo. Adedimeji Lateef and other A-list make una remember say my sister carries all of una join body including Owonikoko, all una was coming to our house to film.
“Allwell supported when you all joined the industry, you people don’t use her in your cinemas movie but now you guys are posting her, did you guys ever promote any of her movies?.”
Within hours, social media users began tagging popular Nollywood figures under the post. Names like Iyabo Ojo, Lateef Adedimeji and a few others were dragged into the conversation by fans and critics alike. Some agreed with the brother’s anger, saying the industry often celebrates people only after death. Others felt the post was unfair and emotionally driven.
What started as grief quickly turned into debate.
Who Was Dragged & Why
As the burial date drew closer, the online atmosphere became more intense.
Zainab Bakare became one of the most talked-about names after videos from the Service of Songs began circulating online. In the clips, she was visibly emotional, crying openly, physically shaking and reacting strongly to the moment. While many sympathised with her pain, others accused her of exaggerating her grief and “performing for the camera.”
Hours after, the criticism had grown loud enough for Bakare to respond. She promised to respond accordingly when the burial was over. Her response itself sparked another round of reactions, with supporters and critics clashing in comment sections. She fumed:
“Y’II Coming For Me And Tagging Me With Your Full Chest That I Was Acting For The Camera I Will Hold On Till We Bury Her Before I Give You a Taste Of Your Medicine 💊
Koni Da Fun Yin!!! Y’II Are Using The Death Of a Loved One To Dish Out Your Oriburuku 😡😡
We Shall See!!!.”
See clip of Bakare Zainab below:
At the same time, Iyabo Ojo continued to face indirect backlash linked to the earlier comments made by Allwell’s brother. Though at the time, the actress defended herself, revealing she worked with Allwell on multiple occasions without collecting payment. She also stated she supported Allwell emotionally and financially. Despite her defence, her name remained part of the conversation leading up to the burial.
The Service of Songs: Where Tension Met Reality
On 8 January 2026, the Service of Songs was held in Lagos. It was meant to be a night of remembrance, prayers and music. And in many ways, it was exactly that.
Actors like Biola Bayo, Ronke Odusanya, Adedoyin Kukoyi, Bakare Zainab, Folorunsho Adeola and Rotimi Salami, broke down during the service. Old stories about Allwell’s generosity and professionalism were shared. Tears flowed freely.
But it was also the night when things shifted.
In a moment that surprised many in attendance, Allwell Ademola’s brother publicly approached Iyabo Ojo during the service. In front of witnesses, he apologised for his earlier comments. He admitted that his emotions had taken over and said he did not intend to hurt her or anyone else.
Iyabo Ojo accepted the apology immediately. He said:
“Big mummy please don’t be offended, you can see that I didn’t abuse you in the viral video. Please I’m sorry.”
While prostrating to beg her, Iyabo Ojo quickly embraced him and said: “O ti lo (let bygone be bygones),to God I have forgiven you.”
See clip below:
That brief exchange changed the tone of the evening. What had been weeks of online tension ended in a few quiet words and a hug. For many observers, it was one of the most powerful moments of the entire burial process.
Burial Day: Grief Without Filters
On Friday, 9 January 2026, Allwell Ademola was buried at Atan Cemetery, Yaba, Lagos.
The atmosphere was heavy. At the service of songs and at the graveside, emotions were raw. Actors cried openly and grieved. There were no dramatic confrontations during the burial, but the weight of everything that had happened in the previous weeks was present.
Cameras captured faces filled with regret, exhaustion and unresolved feelings. Online, clips from the burial circulated almost immediately. Viewers analysed who cried, who stayed quiet, who hugged who, and who kept their distance.
Even in silence, people were still talking.
What It All Revealed
Allwell Ademola’s burial exposed uncomfortable truths about fame, friendship and grief in the public eye.
It showed how quickly mourning can turn into judgment. How unresolved issues can surface when death removes the chance for private conversations. And how social media amplifies everything from pain, anger, apologies to forgiveness.
In the end, there were no winners or villains. Just people reacting to loss in different ways.
Allwell Ademola was finally laid to rest, but the events surrounding her burial left a lasting impression. Not because of scandal alone, but because they reminded everyone that behind celebrity status are real relationships, real disappointments, and real emotions that do not disappear when the cameras come out.
Also, Allwell’s final farewell became a mirror reflecting how loved she was in the Nollywood industry.
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