Singer, actress, model and most popularly known as an ex-big brother Naija fake housemate of 2017, Eriata Ese has taken to her Instastory to drop her two cents to people who are single and lonely.
In a lengthy post, the actress noted that loneliness can make people do what they might end up regretting. Eriata advised such people that it’s better to remain lonely until their minds and spirit are ready as loneliness shouldn’t be the only reason to make a decision on romantic relationships. She wrote:
“Loneliness can really make you talk to who u are not suppose to talk to, sleep with who u aren’t suppose to sleep with, date/marry who u are not suppose to date/marry; makes you Gullible and vulnerable. If u have made this mistake before and it didn’t end well, make sure you have learnt your lesson, If this is yet to happen to you; I’ll tell you for free, no one has ever died of loneliness. The worse that can happen is you’ll be sad, you’ll cry, maybe you’ll be depressed. Just be sure to love yourself a lot and you’ll be fine self love/self worth will help you scale through. Don’t stop praying and believing in what you serve. P.s you must learn to Chanel your mind to other things like going to the gym, read more, discover more about yourself, if you have money give yourself nice treats, go on vacations, learn vocational skills etc. Remain lonely until your mind and soul is ready, do not let loneliness be the reason for your Decisions, you might not be able to read btw the lines at that point, everything will look perfect in your eyes like it’s all you’ve ever wanted. There re so many Scarecrows out there looking like the “LOML” make sure u are mentally stable to see that, no matter how much they pretend trust me u will see the signs. Except the person is destined to destroy your life nd has premeditated it all.”
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