Rapper Eva Alordiah is of the opinion that many intelligent women are stuck in toxic relationships because they have no other means of fending for themselves other than relying on the man they are with.
In a post she shared on her Instagram page, the rapper cum book author urged women to make their own money.
Eva who recently admonished Nigerian parents on the need to teach their wards and kids sex education, she said the phrase “men are providers” have gotten so many women stuck with the toxic sense of entitlement that a man will provide for them.
Read what she wrote below:
“If you’re selling pussy, just say so..” this phrase “Men are providers” has got a lotta people growing a toxic sense of entitlement.
PSA: Men have needs too!
A man is happy to provide where he feels nurtured and cared for. It is in their nature. He cannot go against nature, all things being equal.
Let’s make relationships healthy again.
Let’s make the “Self” healthy again.
Take time out for you, heal yourself and the old wounds.
Escape into your own sense of wonder and individualism. Do your own thing, make your own money.
So many bright, intelligent women are stuck in toxic unhealthy relationships simply because they know no other way to fend for themselves except through the man.
I don’t want that kind of life for none of my Sistars.
God has deposited so much power and potential in you for you not to have your own way in this world.
Let a man come in to add to what you’ve already got while you add unto him too.
Amen?PS: Stop listening to me. What the fuck does a Single, Horny woman like me know about relationships?
Tueh Tueh!”
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