Very few men in Africa willing to end up with a woman with a child – Speed Darlington speaks on relationships

• Nigerian musician Speed Darlington sparks controversy by claiming that African men are reluctant to marry women with children, suggesting such men are “weak” in sexual performance.
• Speed Darlington argues that “no real man” wants to raise non-biological children due to potential disappointment and loss, emphasizing the perceived challenges of investing in children who may later seek their biological fathers.
• The singer’s comments elicit diverse reactions on social media.

Nigerian musician and internet personality, Speed Darlington, stirred controversy by expressing his views on how African men interact with women who already have children from another man.

Known for his hilarious remarks, Speed Darlington suggested that most African men are hesitant to marry women with children, labeling those who do as “weak” and implying a perceived inadequacy in their sexual performance.

According to Speed Darlington, he believes that “no real man” wants to raise children who aren’t biologically his own.

The singer argued that the potential disappointment and loss for men who invest in raising non-biological children are substantial, especially if these children later seek out their biological fathers.

His comments have triggered a range of reactions, with many disputing his views. Some women have taken to social media to counter Speed Darlington’s argument, sharing personal anecdotes of finding more suitors after having multiple children.

These women assert that Speed Darlington’s perspective does not represent the broader sentiments of society and that many men are open to relationships with single mothers.

In other news, A TikTok ‘slay queen,’ who goes by the handle @princesslawal8, exposed leaked chat messages between herself and Nigerian musician, Speed Darlington.

The messages unveiled a rather unexpected pursuit by Speed Darlington for a sexual relationship with the TikTok user.

@princesslawal8, who is colloquially known as a “slay queen,” publicly shared the DMs, catching the attention of many viewers online.