- In recent episode of her podcast, Toke Makinwa gives reasons why cheating is no longer her deal breaker
- Given her own experience, Toke revealed that she has grown to realize that anyone can cheat, especially women , so going into marriage, she can forgive a cheating man while expecting him to forgive her too when she does the same thing
In an era where fidelity is often considered a non-negotiable aspect of any partnership, Media personality Toke Makinwa has declared that cheating is no longer a deal breaker for her.
In her most recent podcast, Toke Makinwa—whose ex-husband Maje Ayida is said to have cheated on her, announced this.
She claimed that as she got older, she understood that it’s easier for women to cheat than men, and that self-control is the only reason some of them don’t.
In her words:
“I think a lot of women need to reject the stigma. If I cheat, it’s okay for the man to do the same to me.
“I feel like I have gotten to a place in my life where you can’t shame the shameless. If I cheat tomorrow and you want to leave I will respect you. If you want to stay, don’t use it to taunt me because I have won the crown of a cheater.
If I’m going to be very honest, cheating is no longer a deal breaker for me. It used to be; when I was younger, I would never have been able to say these. I would have said if he cheat’s, I’m putting back in the street.
As I grew older, I realized men cheat, women cheat. It’s easier for a woman to cheat, it’s self restraint that stops us. The reason why I’m not quick to put you out is I might be the first person to cheat on you. Forgive me as I have forgiven you.”
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