‘Real man doesn’t allow his partner to have male bestie’ – Actor Nedu

• Nedu Wazobia had warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.
• He also advised men not ever fight over a woman

Media personality and actor Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, popularly known as Nedu, has sparked a debate by sharing his thoughts on what constitutes a “real man.”

According to Nedu, a true sign of masculinity is not allowing your partner to have a close male friend or “bestie.”

Nedu firmly believes that any man who permits his partner to have a male confidant is not a “real man.” He emphasized that a genuine display of masculinity involves setting boundaries and not tolerating such relationships.

In his words:

“If you’re a real man never in your life allow your woman whether it’s your girlfriend, fiancée or wife have a male bestie. Don’t allow it. I know what I’m saying. A real man would not allow that.”

Nedu also advised men not to engage in physical altercations with other men over women, as “real men don’t do that.”

He suggested addressing the issue with ones’ partner, as they are the ones who brought up the disrespect.

He cautioned against fighting other men due to infidelity, as the primary issue lies with one’s partner’s actions, not the other man involved.

“Secondly, never fight your fellow man because of a woman. Real men don’t do that. Even if you catch your partner cheating with another man, you don’t have any business with the man. It’s your woman who disrespected you in the first place. So, therefore, never fight another man because of a woman.

“Thirdly, don’t chase after a woman who doesn’t like you. Don’t do that. It’s a waste of your time and resources.

“Fourthly, real men don’t spend money on women who doesn’t add value to their lives. By value, it doesn’t necessarily need to be financial. It can be psychological, spiritual, emotional or otherwise” he concluded