“If your husband is cheating, confess righteousness out of him” – Pastor Bolaji Idowu tells wives

• Pastor Bolaji Idowu during his recent sermon, reminded wives that there is power in the tongue, and anytime they call their husbands cheat, they declare more of that into their lives
• He told them to confess righteousness from their cheating husbands and declare the word of God on them.

Nigerian clergyman Pastor Bolaji Idowu has shared a thought-provoking message with wives whose husbands engage in infidelity.

In a recent sermon, he encouraged women to take a different approach when dealing with their partners’ cheating habits.

He suggested that Instead of lamenting or labeling their husbands as cheats, wives should use their words to confess righteousness and positivity into their lives. He believes that by doing so, they can help their husbands overcome their addiction to cheating.

The pastor emphasizes on the power of spoken words, stating that negative confessions can exacerbate the problem. He advised wives to speak light and truth into their husbands’ lives, reminding them of their identity in Christ.

In his own words, he said:

“Any small thing my husband is a serial cheater. What you are saying is a problem also because you are adding to his problem by confessing it. If your husband is a cheater, confess righteousness out of him. Look at him with tears, ‘Honey, I know what you did. I know it was very bad but you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. You are a Holy man of God.

The reason for this is every time there is darkness, we speak light. You call it out of him, next time when he’s driving and he sees that lady with the ikebe, the head will say look, he will say ‘I’m the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. The reason why he is everybody rises to words and falls to words”.