Why I don’t have many friends – Bolaji Ogunmola

• Bolaji Ogunmola has dished out some words of wisdom to her colleagues and fans generally.
• Speaking in a recently released video, the actress urged people to be kind without the expectation of repayment and stand up for themselves where and when necessary.
• Bolaji Ogunmola also spoke on why she doesn’t have many friends and keeps a small circle.

Popular Nigerian actress and filmmaker, Bolaji Ogunmola, has emphasized the importance of maintaining a small circle of friends for one’s mental well-being.

In a recent video shared on her YouTube channel, she revealed that she prefers a limited social circle, focusing on quality over quantity. Bolaji Ogunmola who revealed that she has many colleagues and acquaintances stated:

“I don’t have a big circle of friends,”
“I have a lot of colleagues and acquaintances, but friends who truly know me are not as many.”

The actress also shared her perspective on helping others, advising viewers to avoid expecting anything in return. The dark-skinned movie star added:

“When you are helping people, never think of what you are going to get in return. As human beings, we have a bit of entitlement when it comes to helping people. ‘Oh, I gave this person something.’ If you are going to do it with the expectation of something in return, I don’t think that is kindness.”

Bolaji Ogunmola further emphasized the importance of self-advocacy, especially in the face of negativity and injustice. She urged people to stand up for themselves when and where necessary. Bolaji Ogunmola asserted:

“When people are carrying negativity about you that is untrue, please stand up for yourself,”

“I used to say God will judge, karma will meet somebody somewhere. God will fight my battle. He does fight my battles. Speak up for yourself, especially in the face of injustice.”