‘Be a man’ is a statement masked in silencing men – Leo DaSilva

• Leo DaSilva stated that the phrase “Be a man” is a trigger for toxic behaviour.
• He stated that the statement only pressures men to suppress their emotions and ignore their mental health to conform to societal expectations.

Former BBNaija housemate Leo DaSilva has shed light on the potentially damaging effects of the phrase “Be a man”.

According to him, such phrase is often used to silence men and neglect their well-being.

In a recent social media post, Leo DaSilva argued that this phrase can trigger toxic behavior, pressuring men to suppress their emotions and prioritize societal expectations over their mental health.

Leo stated that by using this phrase, society perpetuates the idea that men must conform to traditional masculine norms, ignoring their happiness and well-being.

The reality TV star highlighted the importance of men prioritizing their mental health, acknowledging that it’s okay to not be fine and that self-care is essential for effectively supporting others.

He wrote:

“‘Be a man’ is a statement masked in silencing men, ignoring their happiness, and a trigger for toxicity.

“It’s okay for you as a man to also prioritize your mental health and general well-being. If you are not fine, you cannot effectively take care of anyone”.

His post has resonated with many, sparking a crucial conversation on social media about the emotional struggles men often face in silence.

@femmymafia wrote in response, “I’ve been saying this for a while now! But at least I know I’m not tripping now! I could go through a lot of pains and heartbreaks. I mean back to back problems. But nobody cares about whatever I go through or going through. All they care about is me coming through for them. Like I don’t deserve to be loved or treated right. If I hear any say “be a man” to me again, I might clap someone. I’m telling you my pains, you telling me to be strong like you know how I’m feeling!”

@onlylilibee added, “BE A MAN” It’s a statement used to silence males without taking their mental health into account, causing them to bottle up their feelings until they eventually explode in a harmful way towards society. Parents need to do better. Society needs to do better.”