- Ruggedman has raised an alarm on the dangers surrounding domestic violence, while sharing his own perspective.
- Speaking in a recent interview on TVC, the rapper mentioned instances that could lead to abuse, citing provocation as an example.
- Ruggedman also revealed reasons many people prefer to remain in domestic violent relationships instead of letting go.
Renowned rapper and activist Ruggedman has shared his stance on domestic violence, emphasizing that he would never tolerate abuse in any relationship.
Speaking on one of TVC’s flagship programmes, Your View, the hip-hop star stated that he avoids relationships that involve violence, making it clear to his partners that any situation leading to physical aggression would mark the end of the relationship. He said:
“I always tell any woman I intend to date that if she pushes me to the level where I think of hitting her, then it’s over.
“For me to want to date someone, it means I’ve told her everything that triggers me. So, if you push that button, you’re poking me. I would rather walk away than hit the person.”
Ruggedman recounted a past relationship where he ended things after his partner pushed him during a public argument despite his plea to resolve the issue privately. He continued:
“I once broke up with a lady because she pushed me in public when we were having a disagreement, despite my pleading with her to wait until we got home to settle the issue.”
He also addressed why some people remain in abusive relationships, citing personal benefits or fear of public opinion as common reasons. The rapper said:
“A lot of people in abusive relationships saw the red flags but remained in the relationship because of what they were benefiting. Also, some of them are afraid of leaving because of public opinion.”
Urging victims to prioritize their safety, the 51-year-old rapper who revealed why he is single without a child warned, “It’s better to leave because if you die in an abusive relationship, people will still talk.”
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