Twenty-three: Husband, use the tip of your tongue to brush, tap or flip the clitoris in an up-and-down and/or side-to-side motion. Try it slowly, then quickly, and even more quickly. The tap can be light or firm.
Twenty-four: The other variety of clitoris simulation is the figure ‘8’ technique; this helps you to cover the entire surface of the clitoris.
Twenty-five: All you need to do is use your tongue to draw number 8 on the clitoris. Many husbands I have counselled have reported excellent results from this. You can also circle the clitoris with the tip of your tongue, try doing it very lightly, and then with increased pressure, especially when your wife’s clitoris is very sensitive. She will prefer the kind of licks you would use when eating or licking an empty plate of tasty soup.
Twenty-six: To win her heart, ask her to stand on a chair and go down on her, this makes her feel she is in control and it gives her a lot of freedom to move and respond and you will at this point have a fantastic view and full access to the ‘holy of holies.’
Twenty-seven: Nothing impresses a wife as the ability to be ‘fingered’ when her husband is licking her clitoris. The best way to do this is to steadily lick the clitoris while very slowly sliding one or two fingers in and out of the vagina [so that your palm is facing up]. As she gets more excited, try maintaining a steady pressure on the front inside wall of the vagina, which is where the ‘G’ spot is located.
