Kenyan Socialite, Huddah Monroe has narrated how she ended up being addicted to men even though she grew up hating them after she watched her mother being repeatedly assaulted by her step-father.
The businesswoman stated that one doesn’t need a role model to become who he or she wants to be in life as she pointed out that she grew up around toxic people.
She also recalled being ostracized from the rest of the community because they were so poor that people gave them clothes and shoes just to make them leave.
Huddah wrote;
YOU DON’T NEED ROLE MODELS TO BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE! BE YOURSELF! DO YOU! IT’S SO HARD BEING SOMEONE ELSE!
EVERYTHING I GREW UP AROUND WAS TOXIC! I DIDNT HAVE ANYONE I COULD ADMIRE AND BE LIKE . LIKE MY STEP DAD USED TO BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF MY MOM LIKE CRAZY , I CAN NEVER UNSEE IT! I HATED MEN SOOOO MUCH , I CAN’T BELIEVE I’M SO ADDICTED TO THEM RIGHT NOW. I STILL DON’T THINK I CAN LIVE WITH A MAN IN THE SAME HOUSE! SCARY MOVIE!
ALSO , NOBODY LIKED US , NO ONE WANTED TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH US COZ WE WERE POOR AND THEY’D DONATE THEIR SHOES AND CLOTHES TO US & LEAVE , SO WE DIDN’T HAVE ANYONE AT ALL TO LOOK AT AND EVEN WISH TO BE LIKE ONE DAY! LOL!
LONG STORY SHORT, ALL I WANNA SAY IS YOUR PAST DOESN’T DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE! YOUR PAST IS WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU IT’S UPTO YOU TO MAKE YOUR PRESENT WHAT YOU EVER ENVISIONED!
YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING GREAT AND MORE! AND NEVER FEEL BAD FOR IT! GOODNIGHT
