Popular Nollywood actress, Damilola Adegbite has aired her view on why people should live their lives the way they please and never expect too much from people. In the epistle the 35 year old posted on her Instagram page, she revealed that for one to reach that level of peace in life, one must come to the realization recognizing the fact that no one owes you anything in life.
According to the mother of one, recognizing that we are all humans and are bound to make mistakes is the best mechanism to healing speedily from betrayal.
In her words “You will find a new level of peace when you come to terms with the fact that nobody owes you anything. We all want different things in life and very rarely, do we completely put other people’s needs before ours. We must learn to live our lives not expecting much from anybody, no matter how much we have given. It sounds impossible, I know. We are human and betrayal in whatever form hurts. But I’m continuing to learn that you heal and move on faster, and strangely, discover your hidden strengths, when you accept that we are human. We must understand that there is no perfect person anywhere. Sometimes we put pressure on one another expecting so much from our bosses, partners, friends, children… Acknowledge and respect that we are ALL flawed. Prepare for the worst but strive for the best in all relationships. Then and only then can we enjoy inner tranquility.”
