3. Go with the process
You have an idea of where you want the relationship to be at some particular time, nevertheless, you should not forget that it is all a process.
As much as every step is measured and part of a plan, you should still not lose sight of the fact that it is meant to be a process.
The difference here is just that you are not leaving matters in the hands of fate.
You are in charge of your relationship and you dictate what happens all the way.
