#6 Be approachable.
Please don’t tell me you’re one of those women who blame men for not having the initiative. We are now living in an era when the advice “be approachable” is no longer weird and new-agey. Women who are more approachable seem to glow because their body language is more inviting. Now, if you’re surrounded by more than one or two friends, you will look less approachable because he will be scared of being rejected in front of your friends. That’s why you should give him the chance to approach you alone. How can you do that? Offer to grab the next round of drinks for the girls. Find him in the crowd, gaze into his eyes, smile a bit, and before you know it, he will be waiting for you at the bar. Show this man that you’re confident and comfortable with him approaching you. When he does strike a conversation with you, tell him about yourself. Opening up with him will get the ball rolling. Then ask him something about himself, because remember, the disclosure should come from both sides. The more the two of you share, the closer you will get to each other. Plus, it will be easier for you to get to know him better. His favorite director is David Lynch? Grab some popcorn and watch Mulholland Drive tonight, girl! He enjoys the NBA? Brush up on which players are playing for which team.
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Being approachable results in exchanging phone numbers. So remember to smile, laugh, compliment him sincerely, and have fun.
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