The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA) has said that it will train 400 Community Development Councils (CDCs) leaders on curbing Sexual and Gender Based Violence (SGBV).
The Executive Secretary of DSVA, Mrs Titilola Viviour-Adeniyi while speaking at the ”It’s On Us” programme, tagged: ”Men Wey Sabi”, on Monday in Ikeja, said that the 400 CDC leaders would be drawn from the 20 Local Government Areas (LGAs) of the state.
She said that 18 local government areas has already been reached, remaining two, in the agency’s campaign against SGBV.
She added that there was the need to train the CDC leaders, as they were closer to the community members and would help to point of tackling domestic, sexual and gender based violence.
SGBV is not a respecter of class, age or local government, it is happening across the state, so what we are trying to do is to engage these community leaders in the local government areas on these issues.
We want to have them as ambassadors, so that where we cannot go, they will be our foot soldiers, helping us spread this zero tolerance for sexual and gender based violence in the state.
This is actually a spill off of ”It’s On Us” campaign, where we go to all the local government areas, we have been to 18, we have two more to go.
These people are drawn from the CDCs, CDAs and the other different community organisations. So are expecting 400 CDC members from the 20 local government areas of the state.
Our statutory mandate is to embark on sensitisation, enlightenment campaign, and ensure behavioural change mindset of individuals, the executive secretary said.
She said that the campaign was put together with the view of engaging men proactively on issues that pertain to sexual and gender based violence, engaging them on promoting positive masculinity.
Viviour-Adeniyi added that men should not use their role or their strength to abuse the other gender, rather, they should protect the female, as a ”man that knows” believed in gender equity.
Mr Kingsley Obom-Egbulem, a Talent Manager, while speaking on the topic: “Positive Masculinity” (Understanding and Respecting Female Gender), said that it was important to train the men on solutions to SGBV.
According to Obom-Egbulem, if men were part of the problem, it was only normal that they became part of the solution.
He added that the men folk need to have some the understanding that women should be respected.
So, you need to have an understanding of how these problems evolved, the kind of socialisation that informs the problem and how we got to where we are.
So it is important to also know that it is not just a man’s problem. It is a problem that began even while we were boys, so the average boy has been socialised to believe that he is important, or rather he is more important than his female counterparts in the school.
There are some schools where a girl cannot be a senior prefect. Those are reinforcing some of these gender stereotypes that fuels violence against women,” he said.
Teenage Career Development Expert, Mr Kazeem Olaonipekun, on his part said that both the husband and wife had complementary roles to play in order to ensure that the society gets rid of sexual and gender based violence.
Olaonipekun added that both the male and female have their different strengths and weaknesses and these were bound to manifest, so both of them should work on the strength and weaknesses.
According to him, the husband should recognise the strength of the woman and capitalise on it for a better home.
He also said that being the head as a man do not mean that the man is superior to the woman.
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